Will you lend your friend money, if?

Will you lend your friend money, if?

I attended a party last week and a “friend” approached me and asked
“Nasaan ka last week?”
I’m A bit surprised by the question, but I answered anyway
“I was probably working”

Friend: Ah okay, Kasi pumunta ko sa bahay niyo, and wala ka nga daw

Me: Ah okay, normally I’m not in the house, I’m a bit occupied kasi lately quasi sa work.

Friend: ah kasi manghhiram sana kami sayo last week kasi Three days hndi makatayo ung anak ko, kulang daw sa potassium. Hindi un kasi kumakain ng gulay at prutas.puro fried chicken lang ang kinakain nya e

Me: I’m happy that I saw your son earlier already running and playing na, he looks okay na ulit.

Friend:  OO tagalong na say pero baka  you can lend me money and I’ll pay you pag nakagaaan

Me: *Guess my answer…

-end of conversation

loan

Friend’s attitude towards money

  • mahilig mag loan
  • hindi nababayaran ang loan sa mga friends nya
  • one day milliionaire attitude
  • kilalang magastos and has a lot of vices

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Question: If you’re me, papahiramin mo ba ang friend mo na ganyan ang attitude towards money? Will you lend your friend money, if? Write in the comments below and explain why mo sya papa-hiramin or why hindi mo papahiramin?

 

What are your thoughts about the situation? If you’re me, what will  you do? Share with me thru comments or send me a personal message, Thank you!

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12 Comments
  • mitch jover
    Posted at 10:08h, 10 September Reply

    no..hindi ko pahihiramin .para siyang may patagong pera…..and also the way he approached me parang obligation ko cyang pahiramin

    • Administrator
      Posted at 08:37h, 26 October Reply

      agree Mitch, that time, ang naramdaman ko e parang may patago pa sakin na pera kungf maka approcach. Sa lugar namin, halos lahat e nahiraman na nya at kilalang d nagbabayad ng utang.

  • ABCDE
    Posted at 21:49h, 10 September Reply

    No. But since he/she is a friend, a better way of going through this is to give him/her a money that you are comfortable lending which, is most of the case, not the amount of what he/she is asking. Yung tipong kahit di ka niya bayaran okay lang sayo.

  • Will
    Posted at 21:56h, 10 September Reply

    “May pang-fried chicken anak mo araw-araw walang pambili ng saging? Mataas sa potassium un. Paluin mo pag ayaw kumain. Tsaka mukang okay nmn na anak mo. Naglalaro na nga kanina diba nung nakita ko”

    Ito ba ang sagot mo? Haha!

    • Administrator
      Posted at 08:42h, 26 October Reply

      HI Will! jollibee fried chicken ang food plgi,, sabi ko nga bakit hndi mo pakainin ng gulay at saging. sabi sakin, hndi daw kumakain un ng gulay at mga prutas. as magulang may fault din na itolerte ang maling eating habits ng anak mo.

      actually nung sinabi nya na fried chicken lng ang food ng anak nya – prang proud pa sya na -hndi kmkain ng gulay at prutas ang anak nya. tsk tsk..

  • Ken
    Posted at 23:51h, 10 September Reply

    Hell no! sabihan mo friend mo bili ka daming saging. mataas sa potassium ang saging.

    • Administrator
      Posted at 08:46h, 26 October Reply

      hi Ken! actually un din sinabi ko s kanya, pakainin ng saging. lam mo sabi sakin? d daw un kumakain ng gulay at prutas..

  • Arlo
    Posted at 20:52h, 21 October Reply

    Probably not. I’ll just inform him that I’m on a tight budget as well. He should learn his lesson. But reality speaking, I won’t even consider that one as my friend. Sorry, not sorry.

    • Administrator
      Posted at 08:49h, 26 October Reply

      hi Arlo,
      Thank you for reading my article. I actually didnt lend money at all. 1st of all he/she is a known lender to our place and know for not loan at all.
      sad to say but I implemented tough love. He/She has to learn this lesson, and anyway naglalaro na naman ang anak nya at wala ng sakit..

  • Normie
    Posted at 00:53h, 15 December Reply

    Wow! Great timing! I have a college friend who just pop up a message in my FB last week, borrowing money. I lent her 3 years ago, but because she still in financial crisis last year when I saw her, I told her “hayaan na lang muna yun basta ayusin na yung problema nya sa pera”
    Last week she message me and again same old story, nabaon nanman sa utang. She said all her bonus and 13 month pay has paid of her utang, but she still have around 100k para matapos na ang utang nya. Gusto nyang umuatang sa akin at babayaran na lang nya ako monthly, kesa daw dun sa iba na may interest.
    I said NO already, but she keeps on sending me message. I hope I can just say Sorry not sorry.

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